Day 20!

Your views on drugs and alcohol.....

Hate them.

They ruin lives.

Drugs: I have never done drugs but i have dealt with them. Jeff (my husband) was addicted to meth. pretty intense. I didn't know he was doing meth. The way i found out was getting a call from his sister telling me Jeff was in jail. i HATED him. i was sooo angry. We were together for a year and i was so in love with him and felt so betrayed. It all made sense why we fought so much. Why he was so rude to me. and i was done. He was only in jail for a week. And as soon as he got out....what did he do? Came running to me. Not to be together (although im sure that was on the agenda too) but he came running to me for help. I was the only one he cared enough for to change. If i wasnt in his life, he wouldnt have a reason to change and would make it that much harder. How could i turn that down? I never regretted making that decision. Jeff is now 4 years clean. he is my hero. i also have friends who have overcame drugs and addiction. Bottom line it just ruins lives. Even medical drugs are iffy. i try to avoid any sort of medicine as much as i can. im all about the natural. MANY and MOST addictions come from pain pills. It starts out as a legit need for them and quickly turns into an addiction to pain pills .

Alcohol:  i do think that people can handle it without it RUINING their life but from what i have noticed it only causes fights, messes, death (drunk driving) stupidity, unwanted babies, and std's. haha no but really. And most of the time when you have it "handled" and have "control" of your drinking...it turns into a nasty habit and then does ruin your life. So basically in the long run it is just bad. It is something that really is unnecessary in life. i can have a good time without it :) thanks.

Day 1: Something you hate about yourself.

Day 2: Something you love about yourself
Day 3: Something you have to forgive yourself for.
Day 4: Something you have to forgive someone for.
Day 5: Something you hope to do in your life.
Day 6: Something you hope you never have to do.
Day 7: Someone who has made your life worth living for.
Day 8: Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like poopy.
Day 9: Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.
Day 10: Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know.
Day 11: Something people seem to compliment you the most on.
Day 12: Something you never get compliments on.
Day 13: A band or artist that has gotten you through some tough days. (write a letter.)
Day 14: A hero that has let you down. (letter)
Day 15: Something or someone you couldn’t live without, because you’ve tried living without it.
Day 16: Someone or something you definitely could live without.
Day 17: A book you’ve read that changed your views on something.
Day 18: Your views on gay marriage.
Day 19: What do you think of religion? Or what do you think of politics?
Day 20: Your views on drugs and alcohol.
Day 21: (scenario) Your best friend is in a car accident and you two got into a fight an hour before. What do you do?
Day 22: Something you wish you hadn’t done in your life.
Day 23: Something you wish you had done in your life.
Day 24: Make a playlist to someone, and explain why you chose all the songs. (Just post the titles and artists
and letter)
Day 25: The reason you believe you’re still alive today.
Day 26: Have you ever thought about giving up on life? If so, when and why?
Day 27: What’s the best thing going for you right now?
Day 28: What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?
Day 29: Something you hope to change about yourself. And why.
Day 30: A letter to yourself: tell yourself EVERYTHING you love about yourself